Getting ready for V-day

Yestersday, Zachary and I spent a majority of the afternoon getting ready for his Valentine's Day party at school. It was a wonderful way to spend time together and work on our "projects". First we made Zachary's Valentine Box. He was very adament about having a Toy Story box. Fortunately, I had some leftover stickers from my nephews Buzz Lightyear party. I was in luck. Basically I wrapped an old shoe box and Zachary placed the Toy Story stickers where he wished.



After our box was complete we started putting together Zachary's Valentines for his friends. I thought about making our own Valentines and then I came to my senses. We purchased the Toy Story Valentines that came with a lollipop instead. It was super easy, saved a lot of my time, and Z loved them. We put each design into a pile then he chose which one was perfect for each of his friends. Funny thing is Z did not want anyone to have the one that he liked. He was saving the "Best Friends" Valentine with Buzz & Woody on it for Elliott and himself. Needless to say we had a teaching moment to discuss giving to others, sharing the things that we like, and how we can't be selfish. We're all ready for the party at school. Get ready for those pics tomorrow. It should be fun!

Valentine's Week

I LOVE Valentines day! I always have. As a child I can remember when Ruey & Freddy would send balloons, flowers, and/or a stuffed animal to my elementary school. It was a huge surprise but made me feel so good. In college I always spent Valentine's day with my sorority sisters. If we were not studying for organic chemistry or some biology class then we would go out to dinner and see a movie. Whether I was single or had a boyfriend, I always LOVED it! When Kevin and I were dating we would always cook together on Valentines day. Now that we have a little boy we make Valentine's day last a whole week. Zachary, Kevin, & I have got a lot planned for this week.....making a Valentine box for preschool, writing & coloring on the pre-made Toy Story Valentines, having preschool party, a Valentine breakfast, & Valentine dinner etc. To start the week off right, Zachary is wearing one of his favorite Valentine's shirts. I try to purchase "boyish" looking shirts for him. He loves this one. Can you only imagine what I would do if I had a girl? I think that is why God blessed us with Zachary. This way I don't go overboard. :)

Enjoy your Valentine week!

Superbowl XLIV (2010)

Yesterday we had a wonderful day. First it started out at church where we had a wonderful Sunday School lesson and church service. I always love Super Bowl Sunday because it is also Baptist's Men's Sunday which means Kevin joins the choir for the day. Yes, you read that right...Kevin was in the choir. Because this is so monumental I always take pics.

Kevin's in the gray shirt on the middle row...can you find him? Where's Kevin?

The entire Men's choir...boy they sounded GOOD!


One more group shot


After church we came home to prepare some yummy food for our annual family Superbowl Party. Usually we have it at my in-laws house but this year we hosted it at our house because of all the toys for the boys. Basically everyone was rooting for the Saints...except Kevin and I. It's not that we did not want them to win but we like Peyton Manning AND we wanted to have some family competition at our party. For fun, Kevin and I pulled out his "old, worn" football jersey's from high school. Zachary thought it was hilarious and kept asking for more stories about his daddy playing foot ball. Everyone else was in their gold & black....STEELERS gear. Even though they were cheering for the Saints the only jersey Rachel will wear is Steelers. A shout out to Aunt Ann & Uncle Wayne for E & Z's jersey's. They love them. In fact Z had to wear his to bed last night.

Here's our pics from the event. It was fun!

E and Z enjoying their football cups with silly straws.
The spread....chicken wings, fruit & veggie tray, Mom's Rotel nachos, Chicken Bacon Pasta, Mini Sandwiches, chips, cupcakes, sugar cookie cake, etc.

Eating and watching the game

Can you tell the boys LOVED their cupcakes. I love this photo because you can see they are not only best friends but they are ornery too! Elliott learned how to give Bunny Ears!
Sporting our "Hawks" jerseys...rooting for the Colts.

Grams & the boys in Zachary's tent

Our annual family timed photo

Snow Day #2

This winter we have had two complete snows. Zachary loves it! Of course this time it came when we were sick. Zachary begged and begged to go out and play in it but I had to tell him no. On Sunday after church when we were both doing a lot better we let him go out for a few minutes to play.

Zachary LOVES to spend time with his dad. I. mean. LOVES. it! I tried to stay back and let them play together. The converstations that Zachary started with Kevin were hilarious.

Happy Groundhogs Day!

A couple years ago I did a blog about the significance of Groundhog's Day. If you want to read about it click HERE!

Yesterday when I picked Zachary up at preschool he told me he learned all about a beaver. I really had no idea what he was talking about. Then I opened his backpack and his craft project was in there. See pic below. I asked him what it was and he said that it was a beaver and that it was going to see his shadow in the morning. Crack me up!

This just in...Punxsutawney Phil declared six more weeks of winter this morning. The famed groundhog came out of his stump to see his shadow just after sunrise, at about 7:22 a.m. Happy Groundhogs Day everyone!

Before we became ill....

The weekend before Zachary and I became sick we went to a local college basketball game with my parents. My mom's elementary school performed the National Anthem and the halftime entertainment. Zachary was really excited to go to this game with Grams, Pops, and Elliott. Here are some pics from the fun event!

I couldn't believe it...Z is usually scared of mascots. Whereas Elliott loves them. This day Z loved him and Elliott wanted nothing to do with him.

Picture with Grams & Pops and the Pom Poms.
*Funny story...Z loved the Pom Poms. Half way through the game he said, "Hey mom where are my Poo Poos".

Another funny....one of the teachers (which happens to be a friend of ours) got herself some popcorn. As soon as she returned from the concession stand and the boys realized what she had. They both jumped down beside her. As you can see it wasn't long before they had her popcorn between them. They were super polite and used their manners....but it was funny!

The halftime performers were cupstackers and the Juggling team. Zachary kept asking when he got to juggle with the kids. He just loves being around kids that are bigger than he is. He thinks he is a "big" kid. It was a fun, memorable day.

Happy Birthday to Howie's Boy!

Today is my nephew, Elliott's FOURTH birthday! Its hard for me to believe this little guy is already four and its hard for me to remember my life without him. He is such a wonderful boy, nephew, cousin, & friend. In honor of E's birthday I wrote him a poem with his name....I think these have a "specific" name maybe its Haiku. All of you teacher friends of mine let me know what this is called....

Energetic and full of life.
Loves EVERYONE.
Lights up the room with his smile and big brown eyes.
Intelligent! You should see this guy put together 600 piece puzzles.
Outgoing personality. He's never met a stranger!
Thoughtful. He is always concerned about other kids & adults wellbeing.
Tugs on his Aunt Howies heartstrings!

Happy Birthday Elliott! We love you!

Prayers for Ruey

Today Ruey (my psuedo grandmother...I mean my grandmother) is having her hip replaced. This is the second time surgery has been scheduled. The first was cancelled because she had anemia. Because I have been sick I decided not to go up to the hospital to see her. I would feel terrible if she got an infection or something. She called last night and was getting settled into her hospitality suite. This morning Zachary and I have been praying for our Rue Rue. Z's excited because her doctors get to wear a mask and gloves. If you have a second or two please pray for my Ruey today. I hope she the surgery fixes her aches and pains and that she has a speedy recovery. We love you Ruey!

Mom's Intuition

Zachary's Humidifer......We have learned to love this guy because he makes all of us feel so much better.

As I have mentioned in previous posts we have had a "virus" for over a week now. Zachary and I have been up coughing, with high fevers, and other symptoms. Kevin and I took him in to the walk-in clinic that our pediatrician's office (they have it 365 days a year 9-11am) on Sunday morning. Z did not see his regular pediatrician but one of the ones in the same group. This is when he got the "virus" diagnosis. After two more sleepless nights and fevers of 103 degrees I felt like I needed to call the doctor's office again. Fortunately we got in that same day...did I mention I love this office? After Z's doctor thoroughly examined him he was stumped. Obviously there was something that was causing this high temp for 7 days. Z's chest sounded clear, he did not complain of a headache (sinus stuff), and his urine sample showed no signs of an infection. Z's doctor strongly recommended that we get registered into the hospital for a chest x-ray. In my head I am thinking....we are exhausted. I did not want to sit in anymore waiting rooms let alone walk though one medical building over to the hospital to be sent to several different departments. I remember saying a little prayer that we could just make it until 6. That we would have enough energy to walk, enough energy to negociate with Z that he had to have an x-ray, etc. Well, the Lord took good care of us. Everyone was super nice to us. Z got a roll of stickers from every person we meet (pre-admission lady, radiology receptionist, radiation tech, etc.) I will say that Z did a perfect imitation of a mule when we approached the large x-ray room. He stopped dead in his tracks and was not walking into the room with the "big machines". After promising Z a reward sticker he agreed to have his "picture taken".

We survived. We made it home. Kevin picked up $1.99 Happy Meals. We. Were. Pooped. At 5:30 Z's pediatrician called to tell us that Z's x-rays confirmed pneumonia. For those of you that have followed me on this blog for a while know that in November I had pneumonia for a month. I NEVER THOUGHT my three year old would get it.

As hectic as this week has been I am SO thankful that Z only has pneumonia. It could be SO MUCH worse. I am thankful that I can care for this little guy. I am thankful that my husband comes home from work and relieves me for an hour or two. Lastly, I am thankful for a mom's intuition. You know that gut feeling that something else is going on with your child and that I needed to call the doctor again. God is good! Thank you for praying for all of us!

Our pharmacy on the ledge is back.....just so you know those pink amoxicillin bottles are stored in the fridge. I just put it up there for the photo of the day shot. Thank God for Walgreens1

Battling sleepless nights!

The past four days have been stressful, sleepless, and exhausting. Zachary and I still have our virus. We are coughing round the clock, suffering from moderate to high temperatures, and are very cranky. I hate to complain because I know several people who would do anything to have a baby, I know families who are praying that their premature baby survives in the NICU, and I know there are a lot more needs in Haiti than there are at our household. With that said, it sure is hard to be a mommy. Times like these make me more appreciative of all the times my mom and dad stayed up with me when I was sick as a child. While I am exhausted and frustrated from this virus I am thankful that we have physicians that will treat us when we call, that we have health insurance, and that I work at home. While the laundry, cleaning, and other daily tasks are being overlooked. I am thankful that Z and I can rest together on our couch. I found this poem online and I wanted to share. I am thankful to be Zachary's mom. Please say a prayer for us that we will get back to normal soon. And when we do I am not going to take for granted how good we usually feel. Thanks!
Here's a pic of me and my little boy....when are are feeling better. Wishful thinking!

Before I was a Mom
Author: Unknown

Before I was a Mom I slept as late as I wanted and never worried about how late I got into bed.
I brushed my hair and my teeth everyday.

Before I was a Mom
I cleaned my house each day.
I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.
I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Mom I had never been puked on.
Pooped on. Spit on.
Chewed on.
Peed on.
I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.....
I slept all night.

Before I was a Mom
I never held down a screaming child so that doctors could do tests.
Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.


Before I was a Mom
I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put it down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.


Before I was a Mom
I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy.

Before I was a Mom
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.
I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Mom.

HOKIE Fans!

Kevins brother, sister-in-law, and our nieces recently relocated to Virginia. We can't wait to head out East to see them. We were thrilled when we all got some Virigina Tech gear for Christmas. Thanks Jeff & Kathy for the Hokie gear!

They are going to wake me up!

Zachary for the most part has always been a good sleeper. He has slept in his bedroom since the first night he was home in the hospital. I always thought he would sleep in a bassinet (borrowed from Melody) in our room for the first few months. But the first night we were home with him my mom was staying with us too. She & I took the master bedroom so that Kevin could get a good night sleep in our guest bed since he had to work the next day. Within minutes of my mom & I laying our heads on the pillow she said, "we will never get any sleep with him in here". He hummed so loud and never stopped. So we put him in his crib that first night. Funny thing is we could still hear him in the master bedroom with the monitors off. I never used a baby monitor because I knew if I could not hear him humming, something was wrong. Come to find out that is a sign Zachary had/has acid reflux. Go figure. Anyways, back to my original story.

Recently Zachary has gotten himself into a strict nightly routine. He flips out if we don't do all of these things in this order. Can you tell he is a child from two very type A personalities? Poor kid, he gets it honestly.

This is Zachary's nightly routine: (I'm starting to realize this parenting thing goes by way to fast so I want to document events like this).

First we potty, take our fluoride vitamin, and then brush our teeth.

Then we "cross of the day". My Aunt Ann & Uncle Wayne gave this John Deere Calendar to Z for Christmas and he LOVES it. He will not allow you to skip this part of bedtime.


Then we get in bed. He picks 2 books. I read his selected 2 books and then he gets a bible story. We pray. I tuck him in. I must say, "Snug As A Bug, In A Rug" or it doesn't count. And then it is bedtime. He is not allowed to get out of bed...unless he has to potty again. He is only allowed to call me back into his room 2 times. Usually he has to tell me something. Basically its his stalling tactic.

Tonight when I went back in he said, " Can you remove those animals up on my shelf? They are going to wake me up."

I kinda chuckled and then said, "nah they are not going to wake you up. They are "stuffed animals".

Zachary was very stern and asked me if I would please take them off the shelf and take them out of his room.

So I did. Here are the photos of this scenario. I often wonder what this guy is thinking. As soon as the animals were removed. He was out. Goodnight!

Here is his shelf before removing the animals and football that were going to wake him up.
Here are the animals in our living room.
The empty shelves.

Flexible!

So I have to tell you about my crazy, blessed day. All week I have been battling a virus. I hate when medical professionals use this term because basically there is no treatment. I have been fighting fatigue, a sore thoat, aches, chills, major head congestion and a fever. I was praying my husband and son would not get it but low and behold Zachary got it. Here is a run down of my day yesterday.

It started the night before when a Lowe's Home Installation man called to see if he could come and install our new front door and basement window. I said, "Of COURSE...I have NOTHING to do tomorrow and my son will be in preschool." Famous Last words.

The next morning our phone rings at 7 am. I am brushing my teeth but I still answer. It is my mom asking me if I can help my dad out after I drop Zachary off at preschool.

I said, "well, I can but I have a Lowes installer coming at 9:30, what does Dad need?" Long story short, my nephew Elliott was sick and my dad was watching him while my sister was at work. But my dad had a doctors appointment at 10 am. So someone needed to watch Elliott for an hour. After a couple plan A's, plan B's, and then eventually plan C. My dad and I decided to meet up at Zachary's preschool so that I could take Elliott home with me after dropping Zachary off. Here is where Plan D comes in...I went to wake Z and he was sick. Fever, chills, and sore throat. So we hopped in my car. Stopped by Kevins office to pick up an extra carseat. Then picked up Elliott at preschool. Mind you Z did not go to preschool. When we returned we were all exhausted so we curled up on the couch with drinks, popcorn, and a warm blanket to watch Disney's channels newest cartoon, "CUGGINGTON". By this time I was eating my words about "Of COURSE...I have NOTHING to do tomorrow and my son will be in preschool."



Just as I got the boys settled the Lowes installer arrived. I think the boys tylenol was kicked in because they got a jolt of energy and excitement. I realized that I was going to have to keep the boys confined to my bedroom or else they were going to be in the way of the installer. After about an hour my dad joined us for the chaos and I began making lunch. I was glad Dad was there because he entertained the boys with a book or two while I could down my medicines and get food prepared. We had a great lunch and then it was time for naps. Elliott went home. Zachary rested (as much as you can with drill noises and such). At three o'clock our new door was installed. To say the day was a little out of the ordinary was an understatement. As hectic as it was it was a blessing....we got to have Elliott over for a playdate. I got to spend an hour or two with my dad. I got the new front door that we have been waiting on. My dad always says, "Life is what happens to you when you are making other plans". Well today was just that. I doubt I will be using this sentence for a long time. "Of COURSE...I have NOTHING to do tomorrow and my son will be in preschool."

Here are some pics of the old and new door.

*On several occasions we have come home and our front door has been open. It has never latched very good. We also had issues with this huge glass opening because did not like how everyone could see in. JcPenney's helped with a velcro curtain but it was time for a new door.
Here is the few from the inside.
The new door...Zachary says it has a cage on it. It reminds me of the door on the Wizard of Oz where the wizard opens the little door to greet Dorothy.
Here's the view from the inside.

No MOMS allowed!

Every night after dinner Zachary and Kevin have guy time. It has turned into a daily event which Zachary looks forward to every day. At around 3 o'clock he starts planning what Daddy and him are going to do. Usually it's football, playing trains, reading books, wrestling, or playdough time. As soon as the garage door goes up around 5:30 Z has to hide. He runs to a hiding place so that Kevin can find him. Then we sit down for dinner. Again all Z talks about is what he is going to do with his daddy after dinner. He chows down his food super fast and then he has to wait on Kevin to get done eating. As soon as Kevin finishes Zachary announces that I am not allowed to play with them. They either run downstairs or head to the living room to play. If I walk downstairs or are nearby to where they are playing Zachary will say, "No mom, its my time with dad". I am only needed if they need a drink or a snack. Other than that I am off duty. I use this time to pick up dinner, fold laundry, watch the news, etc. Its funny because all three of us look forward to this time of the day.

Here are some photos from the other night playing trains. These crack me up because Z asked me to get him some lemonade in his rocket cup. Then Kevin asked me if he could have some too. When I brought Kevin his in a "regular" cup Z was upset. He wanted his dad to have a rocket cup too. So here is Kevin & Z with their rocket cups.



Zachary loves his time with his daddy. I think Kevin enjoys it even more.